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Posted by: cheatingx
13/07/09 at 3:24 am

I have been divorce for over 12 years.  In the course of these years, I have been in and out of court with my xhusband.  My daughter recently graduated from HS (we are heading back to court over her college expenses) and I am giving her a graduation party.  She asked if her some of her cousins on her dad's side could attend.  I told her absolutely.  When my xhusband's new wife found out that their 8 year old duaghter was not invited she carried on about how terrible I was not to invite her.  I have no relationship with my xhusband -- this woman cheated with my xhusband during our marriage and got pregnant with this child.  I have nothing against the child, but do not want to open my door to them or their child.  Am I so wrong.?  I thought I was being nice allowing my daughter to invite her older cousins to the party that I am paying for and giving her.  When my older duaghter heard her carrying on, she told her father that if her boyfriend cheated on her and had another child she would feel th same way as I do.  Does anyone else have a similar story or problem. 

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Re: Xhusband's new child

Posted by: kenn@springgarden
27/07/09 at 9:54 am

This is your daughter's half sister.!!  Perhaps she should decide whether or not she wants her there.

I know it's difficult but sometimes we just have to put our feelings aside and allow what is fundamentally right to go ahead.

Kenn Griffiths. Contact Consultant, Independent Social Worker, Private Investigator.

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Re: Xhusband's new child

Posted by: namrata
11/02/10 at 11:06 am


You re right Ken, sometime you have to think and do the things that are right for you and initially required and than carry on with your statements.

It is like you need to see and deal with all the situation positively.

Thanks
 

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Re: Xhusband's new child

Posted by: Sophie
02/03/10 at 1:53 pm

Hi, I do agree with you, I got news that my husband and the woman he is with had a child recently (I had to change the day that he came to see my children to suit him)  it is so unfair, my children are angry and confused .

Back to you.  I would say if the graduation party is held at your home then you have the right to refuse entry to anyone, also remember it is you who is hosting the party - should your ex wish to host another party then that is up to him - let him fork out the expense and then he and his new partner can invite who they want.i

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Re: Xhusband's new child

Posted by: namrata
22/03/10 at 5:22 am

HI,

I think it would not be good if i directly through him out of the party as ultimately its going to distroy the mood and fun of the party.

So according to me you both have a personal meet and can find the best solution.you can have a option to have a mediator like Austin Divorce attorney in between who can give a proper guidance between your discussion.

Thanks
 

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Re: Xhusband's new child

Posted by: S charlie
13/05/10 at 1:03 pm

no you are not wrong at all.
may be this woman wants to make your bad image infront of your x so as to increase her importance in his eyes.
it was your party, you have the whole sole authority of who to call and who not to call.

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